Frequently Asked Questions about Therapy - and some answers!

Information on a range of common problems like Anxiety & Depression

 

We all experience problems and some would say that a life without problems and challenges would be very dull indeed. There may be times though when either we have too many problems and feel overwhelmed, or else feel that we simply cannot cope with things as well as we could.

Change, loss, a sense of failure, conflict, or perhaps an awareness of the passage of time in our life, can all trigger a sense that we aren't coping. Alternatively, there may be a specific problem, like stress at work, a difficult relationship, lack of money or a loved one who is ill. 

The result can be increased nervousness (anxiety), depression, insomnia (sleeplessness), low energy, irritability and a range of physical health problems like headaches, aching limbs or gastrointestinal ('tummy') problems. 

At first many people ignore the problem. Many of us have been brought up to 'just get on with things'. Others might have a few extra drinks or turn to other drugs to block things out.

 

Counselling can help with the feelings of despair, isolation and 'separateness' that many of us feel after a separation,  loss or bereavement

Sometimes the anxiety or depression may have been a part of our life for as long as we can remember. In other cases we might be aware that we keep on getting into difficulty after difficulty. It can seem like nothing has ever been right for us - ever.

We might turn for help to our GP and they may help us by treating the symptoms, perhaps with success, perhaps not. Some sources indicate that GPs are consulted about depression more than for any other condition and up to half of all consultations are believed to have an underlying psychological factor.

Nineteen million prescriptions were issued in Britain for antidepressant drugs in 1999, costing the NHS £279 million.

More and more people however are turning for help to various forms of counselling and psychotherapy. In many cases, this is via their GP.

The provision of counselling in GP surgeries has grown enormously in the last 10 years. Over half of all surgeries across the UK now offer this service.

Public acceptance of counselling is growing; in a MORI poll, 80% of those questioned felt that counselling was an appropriate way of helping people with symptoms of depression.

According to the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), up to half a million people in Britain use therapy. The majority of research suggests that counselling works. A £½m study of the use of counselling for depression, for example, showed that after four months, therapy had reduced patients' depressive symptoms 'to a significantly greater extent' than GP care alone, which usually involves anti-depressant drugs (reported in The Observer, Sunday December 3, 2000).

Many other studies support the effectiveness of counselling in helping those with anxiety, low self esteem, or poor interpersonal (relationship) skills. Back to Top of Page

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The next page looks at the philosophy behind my approach to therapy. It also considers some of the theory behind the way I work